Shoe postures and sexuality |
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| Do you know how to flirt with your shoes? The shoe postures and signals explained below, are all intended to make a woman irresistible to the opposite sex. So you may just want to add them to your repetoire!
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Position 1: Entwined Entwined - Some psychologists believe that "entwined" legs indicate a woman's desire to become entwined with the man with whom she is communicating. If the legs are positioned forward then this is a positive signal but if the legs are tucked backwards then this indicates reluctance. |
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Position 2: The Ankle Rub The Ankle Rub - When a woman uses one foot to rub the ankle of her other leg she is attracted to the man she is with. For the signal to be truly representative of her feelings, the foot should be moving slowly up and down the ankle. It works best when sitting and the legs are relaxed but can also be done standing up leaning against a bar or wall. As a signal it indicates a desire to be touched and draws attention to a woman's legs. |
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Position 3: The Shoe Dangle The Shoe Dangle - This is a strong but subtle message to a man. Translated it says: “By half slipping off my shoe I'm indicating that I am relaxed, comfortable and may be willing to undress further." It is particularly powerful when the toes are flexed thus moving the shoe to attract attention. Why is this such a strong signal? Well, for many men the female foot is (strangely) attractive. Women worldwide spend Billions of Dollars on footwear and pedicures and they do it for a reason! |
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Position 4: The Sassy Sailor The Sassy Sailor - This pose was a favourite of Marilyn Monroe. It's appeal lies in the fact that it indicates to a man that the woman has been "unbalanced" by his attention. It makes her legs look longer and shows off her ankles. More erotically, it presses her thighs together and accentuates the curves of her body.
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Position 5: The Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife - This is a popular if misunderstood signal and is broadly used to indicate femininity rather than immediate sexual attraction. This posture can be seen in many of the 1950's TV commercials that used the concept of the "sexy housewife" to sell anything from washing machines to Vegemite For other "Sexy Housewife" signals watch the music video "Falling Star' by the Sunset Strippers to see a parody of many of the sex signals associated with this stance.
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Position 6: Kicked Free/Shoe Drop Kicked Free/Shoe Drop - This is the most significant of shoe related sex signals. By dropping her shoes a woman is saying "OK, I'm ready. My clothes are literally falling off me." It is also a safe sexual signal and should a woman suddenly feel threatened, she can easily pull back - after all, she only removed her shoes!
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Position 7: Pointing Pointing - Sneak a peek at what your feet and hands are doing - we tend to point subconsciously toward the person we're interested in and adopt a more open legged stance like the one pictured below. Unconsciously, this message is often picked up by the other person, without them really knowing why. So if you've got your eye on someone in the corner, point your body in their direction, even if you don't make eye contact, they may take the hint! |
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Position 8: The Toe Tip Tap The Toe Tip Tap - This signal generally indicates sincere sexual interest. If the context is non-sexual and the toe is tapped it can indicate irritation. However, in the context indicated in the image below it is suggesting attraction. The foot with the raised heel is slid across the floor and the woman's body leans forward. It is a precursor to the "kiss me" position and accentuates the length of her legs, her femininity and desire. A woman who adopts this stance when they are clearly on their own is definitely indicating their desire to be approached. It's a suggestion of things to come! |
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Position 9: The Kick Back The Kick Back - When a woman rests her hands on a man's shoulders or neck and then raises one leg as shown in the picture then be sure that it's going to get seriously hot! Movie producers love this gesture and so do men. In a sense the urgency and passion of the moment is literally lifting the women off her feet.
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Position 10: The Flamingo The Flamingo - It is an aggressive stance that is more commonly associated with men. It implies a "tough" confident approach that says "come on if you're man enough". It is particularly relevant if the woman using it is wearing a short skirt and heels as it then reveals her thigh. Thank you to aquiziam.com for providing the inspiration for this article. |
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